I suspect this is because this often comes from people who give it because they themselves are not proactive.
They miss out on having a feeling of high self-esteem .
They indulge in Celebrity worship and wish to attach themselves to the coat tails of others because they don't value themselves highly.
This is touched on in Erich From's book "To have or to be"
Most people these days live their lives because of their need 'to have' and very few enjoy just 'being'.
I need to have another look at this ground-breaking book myself!
I believe our world is destroying itself because of its need to have.
And here as well!
